Wednesday, February 4, 2015

The importance of communication

Arguments happen in every relationship. And we would argue about really silly, unnecessary shit. But it wasn't so much the subject matter, it was how we would communicate. It's amazing what a little change of tone can do to your conversation. And when you begin interrupting the other person because maybe the point their making clashes with yours and sometimes you think if Judge Judy was there to silence the other person and let you finish talking, things would go a lot smoother. But we are adults and CAN handle these situations properly on our own, like adults. It just takes time to form good communication habits. I can't stress how important communication is; it's the basis of every relationship. A successful relationship is built on trust and good communication. It's funny when you have two people who agree on pretty much everything because their conversations are based on logic and facts, yet they somehow turn what could've been a really productive conversation into a fight because one person decides to be immature. I remember asking you "Why do you act like such a child sometimes?" And you responded with "Because I am a child!" I think that's the main thing is you have to be mature for a relationship to work out, this is why children don't date. And it's amazing when you can both grow and learn together and blossom into something so lovely.

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